This is a list for girlfriend's on ideas you can do for your man.
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By far the biggest thing that we want is to be respected and to give respect. But things that we make us really love our girls more is when you do the little things for us. (I can really only speak for myself but I hope other guys love this as well)
1.When we come to pick you up, smile.
2.When we do something for you, say thank you, give us a kiss.
3.Grab our hand randomly
4.Hug us for "no good reason" except for the simple fact that you love us.
5.Be a tease every once in awhile, let us know that you are still attracted to us as well as loving our heart
6.Touch us, I'm not saying in a sexual way, I'm meaning hugs, kisses, stroking our arm, playing with our hair, running fingers over our face, use your imagination, little things to let us know you care.
7.Tell us when you are frustrated and WHY
8.When you are frustrated at something/someone else, grab onto us and let us calm you down, its frustrating when you curl into your shell and don't allow us to help you. Its as if you are saying that we aren't capable of helping, which is a blow to our masculinity.
9.DON'T end a conversation with "whatever" or "fine", that is just ASKING for the conversation to continue and will 90% of the time end in an argument.
10.We like to be babied sometimes
11.Learn our "love language"
12.Once in awhile give up something that you want for our sake. I don’t mean a habit, I mean a preference such as choose HIS favorite restaurant/entertainment. He should notice that you took the time to learn about HIM and care enough to do something for HIM once in awhile.
13.DON'T make us feel stupid or incompetent, learn to appreciate the effort if not the result
14.Learn what little things please us, such as a note left on a pillow, a message written with your finger on our bathroom mirror, what scent we like on you, our favorite candy/food/restaurant, our favorite activity, our favorite sports team,....
15. Allow us to love you with the little things as well.
16. Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspirations
17. Let us know your love language and how we can better please you
18. Allow us to be a close friend
19. Make us feel like we are important to you (cause we should be) and let us be a close confidant
20. Allow us to be ourselves, bring out the child within us, if you can do that, you'll know that we trust you ALOT, allowing us to show a weaker side and trusting you not to rip us apart for that.
By far the biggest thing that we want is to be respected and to give respect. But things that we make us really love our girls more is when you do the little things for us. (I can really only speak for myself but I hope other guys love this as well)
1.When we come to pick you up, smile.
2.When we do something for you, say thank you, give us a kiss.
3.Grab our hand randomly
4.Hug us for "no good reason" except for the simple fact that you love us.
5.Be a tease every once in awhile, let us know that you are still attracted to us as well as loving our heart
6.Touch us, I'm not saying in a sexual way, I'm meaning hugs, kisses, stroking our arm, playing with our hair, running fingers over our face, use your imagination, little things to let us know you care.
7.Tell us when you are frustrated and WHY
8.When you are frustrated at something/someone else, grab onto us and let us calm you down, its frustrating when you curl into your shell and don't allow us to help you. Its as if you are saying that we aren't capable of helping, which is a blow to our masculinity.
9.DON'T end a conversation with "whatever" or "fine", that is just ASKING for the conversation to continue and will 90% of the time end in an argument.
10.We like to be babied sometimes
11.Learn our "love language"
12.Once in awhile give up something that you want for our sake. I don’t mean a habit, I mean a preference such as choose HIS favorite restaurant/entertainment. He should notice that you took the time to learn about HIM and care enough to do something for HIM once in awhile.
13.DON'T make us feel stupid or incompetent, learn to appreciate the effort if not the result
14.Learn what little things please us, such as a note left on a pillow, a message written with your finger on our bathroom mirror, what scent we like on you, our favorite candy/food/restaurant, our favorite activity, our favorite sports team,....
15. Allow us to love you with the little things as well.
16. Tell us your hopes, dreams, and aspirations
17. Let us know your love language and how we can better please you
18. Allow us to be a close friend
19. Make us feel like we are important to you (cause we should be) and let us be a close confidant
20. Allow us to be ourselves, bring out the child within us, if you can do that, you'll know that we trust you ALOT, allowing us to show a weaker side and trusting you not to rip us apart for that.
posted by ~*Joyzey*~ at
11/30/2006 01:48:00 PM
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